I *think* I'm probably the most 'gay' member here. (Registered Bi/Pan, here is my card)

Why is it such a stigma? Aside from all that butch bull-hockey?

I'm not asking you just for you, I'm kinda asking myself.

This isn't the norm if you think if Greece or other old cultures. How did it get to be so 'wrong'?

To the original topic, I have had male lovers who would do everything BUT kiss.

Why is that so outside the lines?