Thanks so much ladies, really really appreciate your advice. Paula, I very much know what you mean about using HRT as a diagnostic tool, that is part of the attraction. Feel like if I don't try it, I'll always wonder whether it is something that my body would latch onto or reject. If believe I am female - but before I upend the universe, am wondering if hrt can give me one more reassurance that I am what I am...
Tough stuff for sure - but really appreciate your great advice!