Hmm. Well there is a lot to address now lol. Sorry I haven't replied I just got to taking my lunch. When I say she dances around it I mean the following; we are both business to business sales people. She keeps using a tactic called acknowledge and ignore whenever I voice a concern. She will say something like "I understand Hun, don't worry if will be fun... So what do you want for dinner tonight?" I confronted her about it yesterday and she did this exact thing. Now maybe she's just trying to build up my impulses, but it would be nice to know what exactly she wants from it. Cause let's say I go and I am not aware of her wants for this "date" then I can't make sure it goes well for both of us, and if it is something that I'm not ready for that she's trying to experiment with then I news to know before it does some kind of damage to my psyche.
