Quote Originally Posted by RachelB
That's when you need to cut ties, protect yourself, and walk away
Well, that's the goal. Until we can get rid of the house (since she never refinanced it into her name alone), I have to deal with her, or at least deal with getting rid of the house. I'm on the hook for that, like it or not. Believe me, I don't like that!

I'm going to have to negotiate some practical details about getting the place sold with her once she leaves it. That may or may not be pleasant. I may try to do that by text message. Talking by voice didn't go well. I still hope to avoid the worst case, which could realistically involve her getting no further alimony at all if she defaults on the mortgage.