Paula I hope you are kidding on the red n blue states. I know a lot of crossdressers in this Red State. Do we have to discuss the red neck statement again on here... Lol .... I live in a red State and I'm considered a red neck but I enjoy dressing. Even wear red lipstick when I do....
Lela just use common sense if things start going wrong don't hesitate to pull the heels off and run like hell.
The only way you'll know if a person is jealous or possessive is getting to know them. At any clue they are---Run