Oh Reine! Do you mean to infer that you missed out on the core message from the Spice Girls? "Girl power", "friends forever"...well almost anyway. Seems they forgot the core message when they broke up...thankfully. Girl power has been a UK phrase for girls being able to achieve or do whatever they want in today's world.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X5jeIg6sxj8
Should you be able to stomach this.
Becky