First off, thank you all for the compliments on communication. We've both always had the view point that honesty was one of the most important things in a relationship. There have only been a couple times where I wasn't honest with her in our 12 years together and when it finally came to light it was really hard on us but we worked through it. (The dishonesty was unrelated to crossdressing or sex for anyone that is curious.)
To answer josrphine's question, when I first joined the site I told her about it. At that time, she said she wasn't interested in it. It's possible she's forgotten about it since then. I meant to bring it up during the conversation the other night, just to remind her that I do talk about this online but it fell through the cracks. I think for where she is right now, she would get frustrated really quickly if she started reading things here. Just because although we all have a lot of shared experiences our end results vary quite a lot and it would be a lot for her to sift through and I'm not sure she would be comfortable asking questions out right. I definitely think it might be good in the future though if things start opening up a bit.
