Well kaylyn I am in a similar situation, I have wondered about this many times. I have been on dateacrossdresser, I found it to be dead and the only active people to be other crossdressers, I started a facebook account just to try to talk to a gal I found there, she never answered. I know the only thought Ive had to that is put myself out with other people similar to me and hope I meet someone that way. I see a lot of good advice here allready, but it seems like the best way is just finding someone then getting to know her and hope for the best....
