For the sake of argument... for this conversation, please assume the CDr is taking care of all his expected duties at home.
As far as it getting back to her, regardless of whether the CDr was caught out and recognized either physically or on the internet... again, the spouse CHOOSE to implement her/his boundary of a DADT relationship.
With that being said... there without a doubt 100% consequences for our actions. If the SO finds out, there will be consequences.
Back to the original question. Is the cross dresser, lying by omission when he/she fails to disclose social activity in a DADT relationship?
