Quote Originally Posted by mikell View Post
so i thought i asked a pretty straight forward question. how do you feel as male, so how do you feel male, i realize its a cd site and we are at varied paths on our CD journey, what i am looking for is the "man in a dress" like to do it. never feel like a different person when you dress, dont feel i share the soul of a women, dont care about sexual feelings when you dress, just trying to pin point if you identify as male CD how do you feel male.

1. if you identify as just a man in a dress CD.
2. not trans, not fluid, not bi, not gay. threads on that already.
3. a CD male not what you do while you CD.
4. not how you can relate to women.
5. not what you do as a male.
6. no semantics, no what ifs, your personal feeling of how you feel male, not societies.
7. not how you feel as feminine or female.
You started off with a different question for CDs - "What does it feel like to be a male?" - which probably has an infinite number of answers. Then you make a weird assertion that the "Obligation to provide for and take of my family" is not a male trait." Then you added confusion by identifying as "third, fluid, queer, whatever the term du jour". And then changed the thread entirely by describing a search for "the 'man in a dress' who likes to do it. never feel like a different person when you dress, don't feel i share the soul of a women, dont care about sexual feelings when you dress, just trying to pin point if you identify as male CD how do you feel male".

Sorry, but I don't get it, Mikell. This is more than confusing and our responses reflect the confusion.

It does seem like you are looking for a discrete population of crossdressing people who you seem to put in a simple, negatively-described box (don't take care of family, no feelings, no sexual feelings) - and you want them to describe their feelings - as a male? Why? And do you think anyone fits in that small, miserable box - and wants to share what minimal feelings you seem to think they have?