Quote Originally Posted by jenni_xx
So, your partner has to pretend that your genitalia is something that it is not?
Not anymore, but he needed to do it for me, for one thing. I had a great deal of gender dysphoria about my genitals. Treating them as best he could as female anatomy helped me be a lot more comfortable. The only reason I mention that is that he was attracted to me and has always seen me as a woman. But my anatomy was really different than that of any woman he'd ever been with. So he just treated me like he would any other woman, and things worked out just fine.

A lot of trans people need to be approached that way, a lot don't.

My only point was that even arrow straight people can work around anatomy if other more fundamental things are right.