I get the idea of support but....... there are plenty of things that folks say that I don't agree with. So..... if someone is hurting themselves or another and they come here and ask for our opinions, should we just say that they are great, and awesome, and wonderful, and that they should continue to do it? Just because we disagree with someone, does that make it a fight? Should everyone, agree and support, everyone, regardless of the context? I just don't think that is right.
I can think of plenty of things that others have written about that could be objectionable:
- stealing clothes from neighbors because they are too afraid to buy their own
- insisting that everyone or no one should transition
- going into women's dressing rooms to fulfill a sexual kink
- having sex outside of a relationship, without permission from the SO, and thinking it shouldn't count because it was with another CD
- no one should ever go outside of the house cross dressed or everyone should go outside of the house cross dressed
- cross dressing in public in a scantily clad, sexual way
These are just some of the examples of things I have read about of these boards that have created disagreements among the members. But I don't personally see anything wrong with that. Support can be seen as just a blanket statement that says no matter what you do or what you think that it is awesome and wonderful, but support could also be helping someone to see the errors of their ways.
If I truly believe someone is in error, I will express that. If they can show me evidence to the contrary, I will gladly change my opinion. If I can show them convincing evidence then they should be willing to change their opinions as well.
