"Are you a woman!"

[Zooey]

I agree with you there appears to be very few fetishists on crossdressers.com and this is likely because the site rules prohibit explicit sex talk. But, you cannot deny there are millions of CD sites that cater specifically to fetish: the porn sites, the yahoo and other groups, the fetish wear, the meet-up sites, etc. I think that of all birth-males who do wear items of women's clothing, the vast majority are indeed fetishists. They just don't happen to hang out here.

I'm not sure that that's true. I think that if you look at a lot of the responses here to various topics, there is a lot of fetish to be found. Fetish doesn't have to be overtly sexual (as in intercourse or other activities), but there is a tremendous amount of erotic energy expressed in a lot of the content here. Just because we disallow overtly sexual discussions doesn't mean there isn't a sexual component to what a lot of the people here are describing.