Rachel,
A woman is a woman because they are a woman. Trans women are women because they are women. Woman is our identity.
Here you're talking about roles. Roles are not identity. Roles are expression. I love a man who can cook, is good with kids, and doesn't mind cleaning. That doesn't make them a woman.
I would love to hear your response to Becky's post, part of which was in reply to you.
