Again, I strongly encourage everybody to read carefully what I actually said in this thread. For everybody who keeps insisting on bringing up bathrooms in particular, and "facilities" more generally, you are fundamentally missing the idea that I'm trying to discuss here.
FL: I did not ever say "not male/not female", nor did I say the more appropriate "not masculine/not feminine".
I said "not man/not woman", with man and woman being gender identities predominantly existing at either end of the binary. There are people who identify in the middle, like yourself, and I'm led to believe that they are neither man nor woman. As I understand it, they possess qualities associated with each in varying measure, but they are another identity entirely.