Quote Originally Posted by Jon_mtf View Post
...The problem is I have not dressed since this conversation with her, now the feeling is there more than ever, eating away at me. For some reason I am still unable to talk to her about it,...

I am wondering about writing her a letter explaining how I feel, this will help make sure I am completely honest with her. She has asked me to open up with her generally and never hide anything from her. ...
Jon, the problem is NOT that you are not cross dressing. The PROBLEM is that you are not talking to you wife. She's your wife. She knows. Your barrier is in your head.

Regarding the letter, perhaps you need to write the letter for YOU to really understand you?