DeeAnn, I used the term "mixed-gender" because it was used in the other thread, but basically it is a word that in my understanding means NOT just male or just female (ever), but some combination of both all the time in such a way that the person who identifies this way presents as a combination of both at the same time ... like the young people I mention who do reject all social constructs of stereotypical masculine and feminine expression. I live in a college town and there are a fair number of young people like that, whether these young people are same-sex or opposite-sex attracted. But honestly I don't see anyone past their 20s who present this way.
Back to you, you did say this does not apply to you because in your case, you are 70/30 male/female. Is this reflected in the amount of time you dress, meaning are you in male mode about 70% of the time, and about 30% of the time in female mode? And at home, there is a significant portion of the time (50%) when you do present male, in other words you do not have an inherent need to identify as a woman and to strictly identify and live as a woman permanently?
Last question ... have you structured your life this way because it is your choice?