OK, that's a mouthful but any gender fluid, alpha male, late bloomers? In hindsight I get it, I've been GF to some degree all my life but I've strived to be 'that alpha guy' and it worked very well. But now I've come to realize (with age, etc, etc) I don't need to 'run' anymore I'm comfortable with my GF self but it's weird, I feel like I'm giving up my 'alpha male privilege'. I mean, I'm certainly no hot chick (scratch that one) and I'm not the show stopping charismatic stud either...I'm not alpha anything...I know, I'm getting up there and what does it matter...but I know a LOT of older 'alpha dudes'. I'm GF, I didnt ask for it but I get it, i think im just saying...is there a plus side to this?