"Are you a woman!"

[Zooey]

I do agree with the GG's in this thread that we need to keep doing what we already have been doing.

Just to be clear, "doing what we have already been doing" does not involve granting CDs the explicit legal right to use the ladies room. As far as I can tell, what they (and in fact I) have been saying is that "getting away with it most of the time" and "not being arrested when/if there's a conflict" (aka the status quo, by and large) is fine for people who do not identify (legally and otherwise) as and live their lives as women.

Being personally okay with a CD in the women's room is very different from saying that men should be guaranteed access to those spaces if they're wearing a dress.