Traci, I think everyone wants to be wanted to 100% percent total. ow I think thats probably not true 99% of the time but ego says that is what most people want...any conflict to that like dressing, looking at pron, staring a girl in the mall, etc etc is a threat and men often have the same issue. I have made some mistakes in my marriage but I love my wife 100% , but society tells us if I made mistakes or kept a secret (ding) then I must not love her.
