I don't get it. Why is it the first conclusion to be drawn when meeting someone from a site such as this somehow all about "an affair"???
I'm guessing it has to do with whether or not one has an ability to separate out any sexual aspect of their feminine presentation and how this is conveyed to your SO. Trust is also a factor.
It's like, "hey honey, I'm meeting up with the guys from the deerhunters.com message board site". She ain't gonna be thinking hook-up on that one. Why does it have to be so different here???