Quote Originally Posted by tifftg View Post
Any chance he was a sister? ...
I hadn't thought of this a the time but if I had to bet, I think this might be it.

Quote Originally Posted by Meghan4now View Post
...One nasty thought is he may have been fishing for a fight. ...
No not a chance. He and the atmosphere was quite friendly. It was a WINE bar after all. No beer or hard liquor available.

Quote Originally Posted by Tina81 View Post
In earlier discussions with my 26-year old daughter, the Millennials or in this case Gen Z are extremely comfortable with those who are gender-fluid....

So who left the restaurant first? and how did you say good-bye and what was the reaction from the rest of the group?y...
Tina, I think you re right about the younger generation. We're not as weird to them. I left first and said good buy the the staff as well as his group. Everyone smiled and said good-bye

Quote Originally Posted by Teresa View Post
...I'm not sure what to make of the guy, brushing your arm may have been a little too much ?

One question were the other guys aware of what he was doing ? Were they egging him on and watching your reaction or totally unaware of what he was doing ...
Teresa, it was weird to be touched. I would never do that to a stranger but maybe he was just a little too buzzed. As for his friends, yes, they all knew he was chatting with me as we were only about 3 feet away and I could hear their conversation quite clearly, They were just hanging out. Either he was a fellow cross dresser or he was just curious about the cross dresser in the room.