It starts with ourselves. I feel like we are our own worst critics. At least i was, until recently. We cant just hide and expect people to to be ok with it. If you hide then that means you are ashamed. im not saying this to blast any one who is still in the closet or isnt comfortable leaving the house dressed.
When i came to terms with who i am(being non-binary/gender-fluid) , i still am, i realized that its all in my head. the fears of some one calling you out, and embarrassing you, will fade. Because it doesn't matter what other people think as long as we act normal and like its nothing out of the ordinary. Then i think we will begin to see acceptance, or at least some form of tolerance.
