I have looked at the responses I've gotten, but have been hesitant to respond. I feel like I just pissed a lot of people off....though I did see some pretty freaking kind folks coming to my defense too. I think it's naive and sweet that so many think I should just ask him....like I never thought of that! BTW, I deleted that blog because I thought it was too personal for the interwebs.....other than that, I'm just sorry I even posted this in the first place. I was hurting and confused. It was dumb. Sorry.
