I can understand many of these posts, My wife was not happy either after finding out. What I would say if the reaction was quick well that tells you everything. If you love someone you take some time, think through the issue and works towards a solution. There is nothing (including my wife eating masculine) that would make me leave on the spot. Folks I have been married 2x, and this one is 18 years, if you love someone you do everything you can to make it work! everything...marriage and relationships are a long commitment , there will be plenty of issues along the way...but talking , understanding and compromise will get you a long and happy marriage . This sounds like a snap decision not a good sign...