Micki is spot on sex in the city is not real so not a true representation of life.
Watch what women do in your everyday encounters with them. All are very different so pic the type you like the best and go from there.
All kinds of voice training videos on You Tube for trans women so search that for tips.
Television is fantasy so forget that.
Its going to take lots of effort on your part to get to the point you are comfy conversing in girl mode.
Taking a video of your self is a huge help in your training because the camera doesn't lie and shows exactly what you need to work on to improve your presentation.
The stiffness is one of the hardest things to overcome and you need to learn how to let things like walking and other mannerisms flow.
Look at it this way men stomp everywhere they go women glide and flow.
