Actually I don't think Guynbart is that far off. While she may not be competing with a CD to attract gay males, she is competing with a CD for attention. I can tell you from conversations with my wife that this is one of her concerns with going out with me while dressed. If I get more attention from men or women around us, then I've "stolen her thunder". So maybe not competing to get a date, but there is still competition there. Just ask a woman if they feel like they compete with each other in how they dress when they go out, whether or not they're trying to pickup guys, and I'll bet 99% of them will answer in the affirmative.