And, how do you know people don't know how feminine feels like? I'd bring up what Lori had said before. You NEVER know how other people really feel, so please stop saying they don't really know what they feel, because you don't know how they feel too. And who knows, some people may or may not know how exactly *your* true feminine feels like.
To me though, by definition, "femininity" means anything that looks pretty, girly, mostly anything associated to what typical attractive woman would have. Now, pretty/girly/beautiful is all subjective to each own person, so by that, the definition of "femininity" will also vary depending on the said person too.
- Bonnie