Deebra,
We don't have a choice but tuck things out the way, I'm always aware of those parts though, even if they don't show through the clothes.
Next week I'm going to be wearing women's trousers for the first time along with 3.5" heeled ankle boots so my tuck will have to be good but I'm ready to resort to plan B and wear a dogstooth pencil skirt but I shall still have to tuck well.
Lucy,
It's not that hard and I don't find it too uncomfortable, I use panties to guide things in the right direction and then a pair of medium control panties to keep eveything in place . Going to the toilet isn't a problem, I will admit I get caught out sometimes when sitting and crossing my legs too quickly .