I've read and reread the replies to my original post and I have a feeling most of the ladies here feel that they are solely to blame for a non accepting wife. I have come to believe that my marriage would be in about the same place with or without the crossdressing after 21 years and our age. A relationship changes after the intimacy dies and you become roommates or friends. I'm not the person she married and she's certainly not the person I married, but I still love her and want desperately to stay together but I won't pretend I'm something I'm not. I have a feminine side that I like and I can't give it up. Maybe I'm simply demanding to be accepted for what I am. Do we not have the right to be happy and satisfied in our marriages? I won't live the rest of my life in a cold dark closet.
Joann
