I will jump in with my own personal experiences and it somewhat aligns with Julie's recent post. I have always considered myself heterosexual even though I dressed occasionally throughout my life. Never had any desire to do anything but dress once-in-a-while. Then about 2 years ago I got more intense about dressing though I have no desire to go 24/7. After getting a fairly decent feminine look and getting over the hurdle of going out in public I began to fantasize about getting together with a man while I was dressed. I know some of you won't understand but I can unequivocally state that I have absolutely NO attraction to men when I am out as a man in my own life. But when I go out en Fem I began to have an attraction to "sex" with a man, not necessarily to a man if that makes any sense. So I began to go to some places where I got the affections of some men and at first just made out at the club. So, to answer this thread, my answer is YES I have kissed a man. But after that, I had the desire to experience more. And I guess you never know until you try. So I recently met a man and went to the next level. Like many here, I didn't know whether I would be repulsed or whether I would enjoy the experience. Well, for me personally, I can definitely say I enjoyed it. But I can also say I would Never enjoy such an experience if I were not dressed en Fem. Yes, it is very confusing and difficult to convey to others who don't feel the same way. So I would say I am no longer heterosexual. But I would not consider myself homosexual as I still prefer women when I am in my man mode. But since I do find myself attracted to men when I am dressed en Fem then I guess I am Bi-Sexual which is OK by me.