Zooey,
I'm sick of being told it's BS to want to retain a lifetime, something we have shed blood sweat and tears to build up, you have your opinion , but not what some of us have to consider when we may walk away from it all. It's a very inflexible attitude and at times insulting to me and my family, and I'm sure to many other members here.
We have been here before so I'm not going to get into a heated debate about it, life is about compromise you just don't want to see it for many of us.