I'm sorry to hear that.
Last year I told my wife I had an interest in wearing dresses and it didn't go well, it took about three months for things to at least seem normal between us.
Then a few weeks ago my wife found my sz.13 heels, she freaked and said she would never have married me.
I told her I dressed since I was 8 and and stopped while our children wear growing up and now since they've all moved out I started dressing again.
I told her that I'm still the same person I've always been. I told her it's not fair for her to put me down and insult me, that I'm a good person.
Now she seems to be getting over the shock. She hasn't asked me if I'll continue to dress or want to. She's probably afraid of what my answer might be.
Our love life seems to be back to normal, I hope she not faking it. Time will tell.