Zooey, where do you draw the line? and why does it matter? I have experienced many 'womanly' experiences. I have been out, interacted, danced, eaten, drank, dressed, walked around, shopped, talked, laughed, cried etc etc etc... all of them as Becky... why are my experiences less valid because 2 days later I am back in my male world?

I am not a man in a dress when i am out, even when I am in 'male mode' i am not a traditional male, I don't like male pursuits, I don't relate to groups of guys and I am not one of the boys. I think that my brain is probably 70/30 F/M. My point is I feel that way but don't feel the requirement to go further. Of course there are many woman's experiences I have not experienced some of which i would guess you haven't either, so where do you draw the line?