Point of the post is many people crossdress and hide and try to keep it secret. I see that as a big burden. I am not ashamed of what I want to wear. I will address this with my wife and come to an agreement that we can live with. I have made posts and or threads in regards to how unfair it is for men and the limitations they have for dressing. Those posts were deleted and met with answers like this has been discussed before. I have decided to do something in my life to address this and wear what I think is comfortable without the fear or concern of getting caught.
Agree with me or not there are many posts/threads on this forum from people worried about getting caught, being seen, leaving something out, somebody finding out..... and on and on. Whey live with the burden of secrecy if you can live in freedom?