I am straight, married with two grown-up kids. We are conservative, and my wife even more so than me. There is no way that she would tolerate my cross dressing, and I have to keep it secret. I feel bad about this, but the truth would devastate her. However, I do feel that I have a feminine side that was crushed as a kid by a brutish father and school, and for my sanity it has to find expression.
Although I love wearing frillies, and skirts (when my wife isn't around) especially topped with a nice fluffy jumper, I am not at all interested in gay sex but would be OK going to a gay club and socialising as long as I was sure that I wouldn't be dragged into having gay sex, which would horrify me. Hugs are perfectly OK but I'd have to be treated as a 'good boy who doesn't ...'. I don't even mind being being naked, but no sex please!
