Wow, so many interesting comments. One thing that wives didn't sign up for is keeping secrets. My wife wants me to keep everything quiet, within the home, and I do. It took 20 years of my secret being out with her, before she opened up to some of her secrets. Others knowing our secrets makes us vulnerable in more ways than we care to think. Let us face it, we all have secrets. One thing I appreciate is that my wife is accepting, but she doesn't want the gory details. There are times when I look for reassurances that I can get rather verbose about it. JDILNTAI a new acronym, just do it lets not talk about it. She tells me I have a fetish and nobody is perfect.
I also wonder about wives that are so against this particular thing of ours. So, what is missing in their lives, or their marriage that we haven't fulfilled. We all have secrets,, what's in their closet.
