New here - also a new 'GG'

[mykell]

Thank you [................... ]

My *plan* (so to speak) moving forward is to take it slow and keep being open and honest with him. I don't have a clue what my comfort levels are, because they have never been tested in this regard. I would like to think I will face this the same way we face other things together, we'll talk about it before hand, even say something as simple as perhaps seeing him in an article of women's clothing, and test the waters and add from there. I would like to be able to say either I am comfortable and go from there, or that I need more time or I'm not comfortable, if that's how I feel. The way I see it is (and this may sound absurd) is that I am equating it to new food... How do you know if you don't like it if you've never tried it? If we approach things with an open mind, honesty and a bit of good humor, I think it will work.

love the food reference, terrific reasoning, kudos,

my thoughts are you seem too good to be true.....my jealousy coming through perhaps.

welcome to the group, nice to see accepting perspectives, i could only add to what you have touched on already, go at a pace you are both comfortable with and stay away from things that take you out of your comfort zone.

as far as our children are concerned often times here folks have shared and they look up from theyre devises for a moment, they are told, "cool", "thats it" they return to look at theyre devices.....our kids just seem to get it these days.

thanks for sharing your story with us.....

............. It's actually quite wonderful, and I am just now only kind of coming to the conclusion that he is the way he is because of all of who he is, and I am a pretty lucky gal for it........................

this i think is the thing that causes me the most stress ? or concern ? in my relationship....the ability for them to be 100% themselves with you and your ability to see it....

a link for you to meet your peers here, https://www.crossdressers.com/forums...f#faq_gg_forum

perhaps you SO would like to join us someday....