Quote Originally Posted by Tracii G View Post
Joyce you would not believe the number of students doing papers that come in here.
Its easy to sniff them out because they go about it all wrong.
They lie and try to sneak around the point but its soo obvious what they are doing..
Your post about lurking students sniffing around the Forum for information gave me pause to think, Traci.
Do you (or any Members) think that the Wives & SO's "sniff around" this forum to find out about their CD men? Has anyone ever been discovered or "outed" by a disapproving partner finding out about them on the board?

I've told my wife about this website, and tried to explain it to her as a safe place to learn and share; it's not a hook-up site. She accepts that, but I know she'd be concerned about it simply because this is the Internet. She doesn't enjoy secrets and I didn't mind letting her know I was a member of this site. I don't believe she has come onto this website, otherwise she would comment about it.
But there are also threads on this forum that are quite personal and deep that taken out of context by another reader could easily be misunderstood, especially by someone who doesn't quite "get it" about CD. The girls on this forum share some very personal things that they may not want to address with a spouse UNTIL there's a chance to hash it out with other girls like yourself.

I assume that that this section (M to F CD) is open to causal non-member viewers, and anything posted is fair game. Other forum sections are marked "Members Only", and I believe there is a bit more confidentiality on those threads.

I don't want to get "too careful" or guarded in how I communicate with Members here. But I also don't wish for my SO to read and misunderstand something entirely out of context, and have it lead to a spat.