Well,, Where do we begin? I've been crossdressing almost all my life, I know how your husband feels. For me it's something that's been with me forever! I just have a need to feel and be girly. I can't explain it, but It's always there. And just so you know, I'm not gay or have ever wanted to be with a man. I can't answer for your husband. you will have to ask or figure that out between the two of you. I guess that I just LOVE the soft and silky. It's so sensual. All I can suggest is try to talk to him in a comfortable situation. Any other questions,, I'm an open book!! Hudds, Lill