I've never worried if something was too feminine after all feminine is what I strive to project when I'm enfemme. At 58 I do consider if an item is age appropriate, I also consider if it is is venue/occasion/time of day appropriate. Lastly the item must be figure flattering I don't care how stylish or cute something is on someone else if it doesn't fit me well and give me a sense of feminine confidence I will not wear it.
