Hi Sarah, I can stop and have no stash but it never goes away. Weirdly it somehow heightens the feelings of wanting to go get some new things to stash away again. Viscous circle.

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Hi Sandra. It is always good to read reasoned truth and is a reminder that it isn't always going to be a fairy tale. It will be a big decision whichever I choose.

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Hi Jane, she has no idea of my dressing. It will come as a shock to her. I'm quite an open minded person and often take alternative views to things and situations so I believe if she can handle the initial shock (and I fully intend to be compliant in that process) that she will see it's another, albeit never seen before, facet of my sometimes quirky personality.

Well that's the hope anyhow.