i did a web search for "transgender" and wiki topped the list....
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Transgender
i preformed a google search for "phobia".... " wiki" was third on the list....
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Phobia
ive always felt comfortable here however ive claimed to identify here for the most part,
when folks are adamant to profess theyre sexuality and gender when the topic comes up it confuses me, they dont like labels but are now stipulating to be part of a sub-category of a label, "hetero crossdresser" "bi curious when dressed crossdresser" "manly man crossdressers" ect..
some will covet for the day they can leave the confines of the "closet", others boast of how they "pass" in the wild, some assure us we can all venture into the land of the "Normals" as long as we fit theyre standards, but at the end of the day we all have a commonality, we deviate from what society in general considers "Normal" gender expression....
for me it feels nice to belong to a group, a family so to say....their will always be divisiveness, turmoil, pettiness in families....but at the end of the day family comes first, family has your back.....why fight our battles alone when we are part of a community, an LGB"T" community and the benefits it will afford us.
my opinion....yours may differ.....something to think about over coffee.....
and when our GFs, SOs, Friends and family google transgender they will see we are part of a broad group....a community....
here is what i found when i web searched "crossdresser"
https://www.google.com/search?q=crossdresser&source=lnms&sa=X&ved=0ahUKEw jX84SqhKXXAhVLMSYKHRcOC4QQ_AUICSgA&biw=1280&bih=63 9&dpr=1
click on the instagram listing....
crossdressing...theirs an app for that 
