If someone feels they are suffering from serious gender identity issues, they should seek therapy. If it is a case of not being able to do what one wants to do, then try to seek some balance. I know it can be tough to not be able to be en femme whenever the feeling/urge strikes. The frustration builds up. Then an unwise choice may be made. The results can be more than anticipated. Sure, you may decide to come out to everyone on the spur of the moment. It's all about risk vs. reward. Once the Genie is out of the bottle, she is not going back. If you are really tormented by the thought of losing relationships among family and close friends and coworkers, it may be advisable to cultivate another set of relationships. Find a support group. Some decisions can be lifelong mistakes.
