I think many of us wonder about this but it's mostly a fantasy for most. We don't have a vagina so we could never really know the feeling. And many of us are married so we can't really go to a gay bar and ask some guy to "do" us just to find out what it feels like.

Now going back to the original post, here's a question: If a man is married (to a woman) but occasionally pleasures himself sexually (whatever way), is that "cheating"? Is he cheating with himself? And especially if he is dressed as a woman at the time?