Pat,
I missed the pat where she felt that the office was repressive. It sounds like what someone else said in that she just wants to get out more. I also recommend looking for a support group, or a member of this site who may live nearby to have a side kick when venturing out those very first times. By all means explain that issue (need to go out more) with your therapist. If the office is also oppressive, mention that too. She is there to help as best she can. If she can go out for coffee with you, she will tell you. However, I would not get my hopes up on that solution. Good luck and congrats on seeing a therapist and getting out dressed. Those are very big steps for most of us.
