In crossdressing, it means the time I spend dressed is time when I could be doing something constructive or some other activity I enjoy, like biking or hiking or working out in the garage...lol..not 'working out'...but working...out in the garage
It clearly varies by individual, but it's possible to crossdress AND do something constructive.
I am not a woman; I don't want to be a woman; I don't want to be mistaken for a woman.
I am not a man; I don't want to be a man; I don't want to be mistaken for a man.
I am a transgender person. And I'm still figuring out what that means.
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.