For me I'm 5"10" and 42" chest sz 18 in women's dresses I would say I could only pass at a distance in low lighting!
But I'm still having FUN!
Judy, I humbly disagree. Based on the photo you've chosen for your avatar, I'd say you are being a wee bit hard on yourself. I think you look totally realistic and feminine.
The crossdressing community is one that needs to stick together and continue to be there for each other for whatever one needs. We are always trying to improve the forum to better serve the crossdresser in all of us.