Kandi, I hear you and love that you have embrassed who you are. For me being transgendered is not an option because I love my wife and family and I would die if they were not in my life. Others can run that risk and I understand their need to correct their gender issues or go crazy. For me I will accept my situation and proudly say that I am GENDER FLUID. I'm just happy that I have that ability to express my feminine self fairly well and enjoy being out and about as I would like to be seen on occasion.