Quote Originally Posted by sherri View Post
I think the "dressing occasionally" would be a deal-breaker with many companies who might otherwise wish to be PC and TG supportive. You would need to go all-in or not at all. Some companies, especially small ones, might be more accommodating for positions where your interaction is limited to in-house, thereby avoiding negative customer reactions. Also, how about something not mainstream, like a coffee shop or bartending in a metro lgbt district? I was once offered a week-night bartending gig at an lgbt club I frequented, but the pay would have been so paltry it wouldn't have even paid for the commute, let alone the makeup.
Honestly this really depends on the company and i would say large companies are probably more accepting of anyone who might want to crossdress to work. I work for a company called Cerner, and they are pretty awesome for anyone who wants to occasionally present female. They have a zero tolerance policy for any kind of harassment from anyone and really push towards being accepting towards everyone, it is very deeply ingrained in the company. Now that being said there is a caveat: If you choose to present female that does mean presenting female, that means no facial hair for example, if you do makeup (and in my opinion you should) it has to be well done and presentable, you should either wear a good wig or have your hair styled in an appropriate style for women.